Dear Kate,

Bedtime with an almost 3-year old (who would rather play than sleep) and a 1-year old (who, judging by her screams, thinks sleep is death in disguise) is an affair.  I often wish I could just skip the bedtime mess all together.

Tonight, I got stuck at work for so long that I wasn't home for the bedtime mess.

You know what?  Next time, I'd like the bedtime mess, please.

Love,
Bora.